Why You Pull Back When What You Want Starts to Happen

There are moments when something you’ve been asking for begins to enter your life…
and instead of moving forward, you feel yourself hesitate.

You pause.
You question it.
You feel the urge to pull back.

This is not random. There is a deeper process happening within you.

The moment you begin to pull back

Whenever something wants to enter our life, we feel it through our intellectual intelligence.
Our intellectual intelligence gives us feedback on whether what we want is something known or unknown. When it is something unknown or not yet experienced, it moves into the awareness of our emotional intelligence. Through our emotional intelligence, we sense whether we have the capacity to be open and receive it.

This can look like feeling excited about an opportunity… and then suddenly feeling overwhelmed.
It can look like asking for something to change… and when it begins to move, you hesitate.
It can look like knowing what you want… and still finding reasons to delay, question, or step back.

This is where most people turn away.
This is where your expansion begins.

Understanding your capacity to receive

For most people, this is where they get stuck, because they become aware of their lack of capacity to receive it and push it away.

Instead, what our soul and Spirit truly want us to do is check in with our capacity to hold this new reality and provide feedback on how much capacity we currently have to receive it. When we become aware that we don’t yet have enough capacity to receive something new in our lives, Spirit helps us increase that capacity, to receive it, to hold it, and to expand into it.

If you want to manifest something in your life, it cannot become tangible unless you expand your capacity to receive it, live it, and enjoy it.

Most people feel their lack of capacity and push away what they once wanted to manifest.
Your emotional intelligence helps you become aware of the need to expand your capacity to receive, so that you can fully welcome and manifest everything you have been asking for.

Do not retreat.
Do not push it away.
Do not put it on hold.
Do not ignore it.

The heartbreak, nervousness, stress, or excuses are simply feedback that you have not yet consciously expanded your capacity to receive what you desire to manifest in your life.

So, release the excuses and do the energetic work first. Then you will feel your emotional intelligence giving you the feedback that you are ready to welcome the new.

You may still not know how it will happen or what needs to happen to receive it, but it is not your job to figure that out.
That is the role of Spirit.

Your job is to create space for it.

Work with me

If you are recognizing yourself in this, this is something we can expand together.

In a private session, we gently work with your energy, your emotional awareness, and your capacity to receive, so what you desire no longer feels overwhelming, but natural to hold.

So, let’s work together: Book a Private Session – Mariela Siwarqinti

If you feel called to go deeper into this work, my Journey to Wholeness sessions support you in healing the deeper patterns that shape your capacity to receive.

You don’t need to force what you desire into your life.
You only need to become available to receive it.

Don’t quit before the miracle.
Live the miracle.

Sending lots of Love & Healing your way!

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