Be Happy.
A long time ago I was upset about a decision I had to make. I didn’t know if I was making the right decision and I didn’t want to be wrong! The possibility of choosing the wrong decision had me torn and stuck! I was stressing myself so much, I could feel my own pain inside and it was tearing me apart.
Finally, I asked my Heart what it wanted. It said nothing at first, but the next morning while I was doing my hair, and looking at myself in the mirror, my Heart said “I don’t want to be Right, I want to be Happy.”
That simple answer broke all my fear and anxiety about making the wrong decision and made me realize that trying to keep together what I had did not make me happy. It also revealed that my real struggle wasn’t about making the wrong decision but was the fear of letting go and thinking I will be left with nothing. That was the feeling that was actually tearing me apart. Also, thinking that I was going to be left with nothing was the mirage that was preventing me from seeing the true abundance the Universe always has available.
It was just one simple phrase, “I don’t want to be Right, I want to be Happy.” BUT, it came with a deeper understanding of WHY I was holding on to it. That holding on was actually holding me back from receiving new and fresh opportunities that were ONLY available when I released the idea that letting go is a loss.
See, once I realized the possibility of more opportunities ahead, I became liberated from my previous belief and I felt myself expanding to understand both places, a place of limitation and a place of freedom. I also realized that only a SMALL part of myself was overwhelmed with fear, concern and judgment of making the wrong decision but a much LARGER and more essential part of myself was truly devoted to following a path of Truth, Joy, Peace, Love and Abundance.
Since that realization, I now, for every situation I encounter I check with that LARGER part of myself for Truth to be revealed and Healing to take place on that smaller part of myself who may be afraid to let go or move forward and allow Love and Joy to reign in my life.
This is my simple but powerful practice to release fear of loss and continue to accept in my life all the great things available that we cannot see when fear of loss is present.
You may use this practice and I am here for added support because I know that fear and doubt can make you blind and the guidance and support of someone who has navigated this dark territory successfully can give you the foresight to see the great things ahead and bring out the courage and confidence to get there. That’s the kind of support I believe in and provide.
So if you feel yourself struggling with your current situation, simply book a session and find your Truth.
“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.” ~ Rumi
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